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Post by kerr9000 » Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:16 pm

Half the issue with schools and bullying is they want to sweep it under the rug, look clean and do as little as possible, if your a parent you need to be persistent and make them understand if they ignore it you will be a bigger pain in the butt than they can handle so that solving the bullying becomes the easier route to take, best of luck to you hope it's solved soon.

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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by DarkRula » Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:37 pm

Nofes wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:22 am
Most of us here were bullied?
I was just going off
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I am sorry to hear so many of you have been bullied,
Which is probably something I should have kept in the original quote.

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Post by fluffyKittan » Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:09 pm

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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by JenovaPX » Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:20 pm

kerr9000 wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:16 pm
Half the issue with schools and bullying is they want to sweep it under the rug, look clean and do as little as possible, if your a parent you need to be persistent and make them understand if they ignore it you will be a bigger pain in the butt than they can handle so that solving the bullying becomes the easier route to take, best of luck to you hope it's solved soon.
Generally not true. Schools just have very limited powers in dealing with what is a difficult issue to actually fix. The only powers of any significance at hand are punishment and conversation, punishment's fine but not massively effective and conversation is reliant on all parties being interested in solving the problem which isn't often the case.

Sure, schools want to look clean because what institution doesn't but I don't think many people realise what schools can do or have any idea what an effective means of dealing with bullying is.
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Post by Shio hime » Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:48 pm

JenovaPX wrote:
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what an effective means of dealing with bullying is.
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Post by Vtheyoshi » Thu Jul 20, 2017 5:46 pm

DarkRula wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:37 pm
Nofes wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:22 am
Most of us here were bullied?
I was just going off
considering that the userbase here is made up of adults who still play video games, this is a very reasonable assumption
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Post by Kappa » Thu Jul 20, 2017 6:05 pm

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Post by Rik » Thu Jul 20, 2017 7:54 pm

Chester Bennington has committed suicide and this makes me very sad :(
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Post by Nofes » Thu Jul 20, 2017 8:29 pm

Vtheyoshi wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 5:46 pm
DarkRula wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:37 pm
Nofes wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:22 am
Most of us here were bullied?
I was just going off
considering that the userbase here is made up of adults who still play video games, this is a very reasonable assumption
Maybe if you're DJ
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Post by Vtheyoshi » Thu Jul 20, 2017 9:53 pm

Rik wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 7:54 pm
Chester Bennington has committed suicide and this makes me very sad :(
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Post by Tsunade » Thu Jul 20, 2017 10:41 pm

JenovaPX wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:20 pm
kerr9000 wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:16 pm
Half the issue with schools and bullying is they want to sweep it under the rug, look clean and do as little as possible, if your a parent you need to be persistent and make them understand if they ignore it you will be a bigger pain in the butt than they can handle so that solving the bullying becomes the easier route to take, best of luck to you hope it's solved soon.
Generally not true. Schools just have very limited powers in dealing with what is a difficult issue to actually fix. The only powers of any significance at hand are punishment and conversation, punishment's fine but not massively effective and conversation is reliant on all parties being interested in solving the problem which isn't often the case.

Sure, schools want to look clean because what institution doesn't but I don't think many people realise what schools can do or have any idea what an effective means of dealing with bullying is.
Ella has had a few issues with being bullied this year and her teacher has dealt with it quite well and tried his hardest to get to the route of it. Unlike most of the teachers she's had in the past, he actually seems to give a crap about the kids, not just the work they're all made to churn out. He's called parents aside after school to talk to them, even calling me on my phone to talk about issues going on during the day (her "best friend" and her are always falling out, mainly due to her "best friend" spreading rumours about Ella and being a little eton mess at the best of times). I've only ever had to go in to the school when Ella has felt like she can't properly tell me about a problem that's gone on until I've squeezed it out of her as she's been scared of being called a snitch by the other kids, and her teacher has done his best with every situation. I don't know if that's because his spirit hasn't been completely broken by the kids yet (he only started teaching there last year) but he has really tried to work out what's been going on.

I do think the parents are to blame for their bad behaviour. I once confronted one parent who's son had called Ella annoying when she'd only gone to ask him if she could play football with him. His mother turned around and said that it was wrong of him to say that but Ella shouldn't have annoyed him in the first place, when all Ella had done was ask him if she could play! I'd actually watched the entire thing happen, and confronted his mom as soon as it had.

Half the kids at Ellas school are little eton mess. There's only actually a handful in Ellas class that haven't been bullying other kids this year. But a lot of the parent's are so highly strung there ("my child would NEVER do that sort of thing") that the kids get away with their behaviour. If Ella was ever bullying someone, she'd be in a hell of a lot of trouble with me. I'm so glad she only has one more year at that school before secondary, there's no way I'm sending her to the same school as them lot, after all the trouble half those kids cause, I'll be glad she can have a fresh start.

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Post by D.J » Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:35 am

Nofes wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 8:29 pm
Vtheyoshi wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 5:46 pm
DarkRula wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:37 pm


I was just going off
considering that the userbase here is made up of adults who still play video games, this is a very reasonable assumption
Maybe if you're DJ
Well i doubt Nofes was ever bullied, he probably didn't have any enemies at all, that said, he most likely didn't have any friends either, but hey, at least he had a quiet life.
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Post by Met » Fri Jul 21, 2017 8:54 am

Nofes just wants a quiet life.
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Post by Jezo » Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:17 am

fluffyKittan wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 4:09 pm
Jezo wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 2:22 pm
I think the guy in the cubicle next to me is masturbating, I can see from his shadow on the floor his hand shaking about loads and it's putting me off, and every so often he stops and then his hand starts shaking again.
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Post by OmegaPit » Fri Jul 21, 2017 9:54 am

Vtheyoshi wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 5:46 pm
DarkRula wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 3:37 pm
Nofes wrote:
Thu Jul 20, 2017 11:22 am
Most of us here were bullied?
I was just going off
considering that the userbase here is made up of adults who still play video games, this is a very reasonable assumption

I agree.
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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by Nofes » Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:31 pm

D.J wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:35 am
Well i doubt Nofes was ever bullied, he probably didn't have any enemies at all, that said, he most likely didn't have any friends either, but hey, at least he had a quiet life.
And here, ladies and gentlemen, is a 30 something year old man who spends his free time trying to fight away teenagers and young adults that bully him on the internet.

If you ever wanted a story that reflects modern bullying, this is it.
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Post by Shio hime » Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:34 pm

I want to hear Yubel's take on all of this.
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Post by D.J » Fri Jul 21, 2017 5:42 pm

Nofes wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:31 pm
And here, ladies and gentlemen, is a 30 something year old man who spends his free time trying to fight away teenagers and young adults that bully him on the internet.

If you ever wanted a story that reflects modern bullying, this is it.
I think you'll find i've long since past the point where i actually give a crap about anything that goes on here.

If you take a pop at me, i'll send one right back, but if you think it's something i actually care about, then i'm afraid you're mistaken.
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Post by Yubel » Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:06 pm

Nofes wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:31 pm
D.J wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:35 am
Well i doubt Nofes was ever bullied, he probably didn't have any enemies at all, that said, he most likely didn't have any friends either, but hey, at least he had a quiet life.
And here, ladies and gentlemen, is a 30 something year old man who spends his free time trying to fight away teenagers and young adults that bully him on the internet.

If you ever wanted a story that reflects modern bullying, this is it.
DJ has hit the nail on the head and just reflecting on this conversation, especially your stance on the subject Nofes, I'm honestly having to hold back on letting my feelings cloud my better judgement.

As a victim of bullying myself, just seeing people like you going around and making light of this topic, with no sense of regret regarding your time being a bully yourself (hell, you probably still are), really stirs me on a personal level
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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by Tsunade » Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:25 pm

I've got an evening to myself in the first time in ages. I have no idea what to do.

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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by Vtheyoshi » Fri Jul 21, 2017 7:02 pm

Yubel wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:06 pm
Nofes wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 4:31 pm
D.J wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:35 am
Well i doubt Nofes was ever bullied, he probably didn't have any enemies at all, that said, he most likely didn't have any friends either, but hey, at least he had a quiet life.
And here, ladies and gentlemen, is a 30 something year old man who spends his free time trying to fight away teenagers and young adults that bully him on the internet.

If you ever wanted a story that reflects modern bullying, this is it.
DJ has hit the nail on the head and just reflecting on this conversation, especially your stance on the subject Nofes, I'm honestly having to hold back on letting my feelings cloud my better judgement.

As a victim of bullying myself, just seeing people like you going around and making light of this topic, with no sense of regret regarding your time being a bully yourself (hell, you probably still are), really stirs me on a personal level
lighten up lol
obviously it sucks that you and anyone in general was bullied, but there's nothing wrong with joking about it
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Post by Decretum » Fri Jul 21, 2017 7:05 pm

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Post by D.J » Fri Jul 21, 2017 7:34 pm

Decretum wrote:
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Re: How Do You Feel Right Now (HDYFRN)

Post by Shio hime » Fri Jul 21, 2017 7:46 pm

Tsunade wrote:
Fri Jul 21, 2017 6:25 pm
I've got an evening to myself in the first time in ages. I have no idea what to do.
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